Submissive Rules and Etiquette

First impressions are very important to me. This means that I expect a new sub to be on their best behavior when inquiring about a session from me. This will be written from Domina's perspective.... my perspective. Do not use this as a blanket rule book for other professional Domme’s. Where there are similarities between other professionals, it is always smart to read each Domme’s FAQs or writings first.

Initial Email/Message

Read through my this sheet thoroughly. All of the important and necessary information will be here. I don't like to repeat myself.
I only session with submissives 18+. I will view your photo ID to confirm in our video vetting.
If you have a specific fetish that is not listed on my application or fetish list – as long as it is not explicit sexual activities (anything that ends in 'job') – don’t be shy or feel embarrassed to ask respectfully. I have probably heard it before and maybe I will find it interesting as well. In general, if a fetish is not listed do not make assumptions about the fetishes/kinks I offer. Do not assume that I will like an activity unless I explicitly inform you in writing or verbally that I am interested in it.
If you are lucky enough to have my phone number/Skype/Telegram and think about calling me… don’t. If you have been given explicit instructions to call me, make sure that your number is visible, as calls from block numbers will usually not be answered.
Spell and pronounce my name correctly. Goddess Crimson. Capital G, Capital C.
Have at least two possible dates/times when you can have a video or in person consultation and two dates/times when you can have your session listed in your email. Same day sessions are often not possible and restricted to regular clients only. My notice period for my normal rate is a week (7 days) in advance. Any last minute sessions are subject to a higher tribute.
References are HIGHLY appreciated and applications with references have a higher chance of being accepted.
In an E-Mail: Correct grammar is a must. Your E-Mail should be concise and meaningful, so that it can be read in a reasonable time. This goes also when using a web application form, follow the application instructions carefully.
You may ask about the tribute to confirm, but NEVER in any case try to inquire about a lower tribute. Have in mind that specific activities or scenes requiring intricate planning or the involvement of other players may have a premium. You can also ask what my preference is when and how you can hand over the tribute.
Do not ask to describe what I will do to you in a session. In this case I might assume that you want to masturbate at my expense and not respond to you/black list you. The initial contact is exclusively designed to get in touch for the first time and to agree upon a date for both the vetting/consultation and session. The Initial email/message is not a place to exchange fantasies/ideas.

The Session Agreement

Only make an agreement for a session, if you are ready for the session and if you feel that you will have a good session. Otherwise, do not contact me.
I require written email confirmation the day of the session via email. Make sure you make this confirmation in time or I will consider this a cancellation of the session.
If some preparations for the session are necessary don't call/message me and ask how things are progressing, if not agreed otherwise. It’s a good rule of thumb to not overwhelm me with messages/flirting, unless I have explicitly said otherwise.
If you have confirmed the session but have a change of mind or you are prevented for any reason, cancel the session immediately and of course as soon as possible. Failure to show for a confirmed session will leave you blacklisted from ever visiting me again and I will also pass your details on to other pro Dommes. We hate to have our time wasted. Most client’s do not take into consideration the preparation it takes to get ready for a session, so be respectful.
For regular submissives (including submissives with proper references), I require 50% of your tribute to book your date/time. For new submissives, I will ask for full tribute to book the session UNLESS you have proper references. If this is not received, your session will not be scheduled.
Deposits are nonrefundable.
Should you cancel your session after you have paid your deposit you have a couple of options. If you cancel your session with at least a week’s notice, I will carry your deposit to your rescheduled session. If you cancel and do not follow up with a rescheduling date/time within 24 hours of canceling, I keep the full amount and do not apply any of it to a future session. Due to high demand, if you cancel with less than a week’s notice I will not apply it to a rescheduled session.

The Day of your Session

Be clean (body and mouth) and in a healthy state when you visit me, i.e. shower beforehand and if necessary change clothes prior to the visit. You will be sent home if there is excessive body odor.
Do not drink or do drugs before your session. I will not accept client’s that are under the influence. You will be sent home.
Be on time, i.e. don’t be too early (5 minis okay) or late. If you are late without notice, it comes out of your session time. If you are more than 15 minutes late, your session will be canceled. Take into consideration that it may that the drive will last longer during the rush hours.
If you are early, drive around or grab me a coffee ;) The dungeon is located in a neighborhood and do not want to draw attention to a mystery car waiting outside of the space. Never show up early without my explicit permission.
Be respectful all the time.
For first time client’s I always spend 10-15 minutes before the session to reiterate house safe words, hard limits and session desires. I also take this time to give new client’s a chance to see my space and myself for the first time. The adrenalin of a new Goddess is exhilarating, but anxiety can ruin a session. It is important that my client’s feel confident to use safe words and express hard limits.
Study my house safe words. Yellow, Orange, Purple. Yellow: I have had to much with the activity, but I am okay to continue with the scene. Orange: I have had too much of the scene but I am okay and just need a cool down. Purple: The scene stops immediately because something is wrong (body/mind). I have never brought a submissive to purple but it is important to be able to communicate during a scene. Non-verbal safe words should also be studied. Peace sign (two fingers up): Is the equivalent of yellow. Walking peace sign (the two fingers moving back and forth): Equivalent of orange/purple and I will check-in immediately. Double tapping my leg: This is important for breath play or face sitting. It signifies that you are at your limit with breath play and need a break.
During the time before your session, avoid presenting me with a detailed script of your likes/desires for the scene. Trust that I have the skills to fulfill your desires with the information we discussed. It is also much more interesting for you, if you don't know exactly what is coming next.
Respect my limits at all times. It is bad manners to ask me to engage in a practice I have told you I don’t do. My hard limits are non-negotiable. In this case immediate dismissal is most likely and fully justified.
NEVER negotiate the tribute. My tribute is set in stone.
You may ask what gifts I like. Although gifts are not mandatory they are always a sign of your esteem. I do prioritize submissives that give.
Tips during your session are encouraged and highly appreciated. Again, I prioritize submissives that give. If you decide to bring a tip for your session, seal it in an envelope that states, "Devoted, Sub [your name]".
Give me honest/respectful feedback on the session later on but not during a session. I will prompt you for your feedback afterwards or in a message later on.

In Between Sessions / After Sessions

Respect my private life; never ever ask or seek for my personal information.
If you see me at a vanilla location and/or event do not approach me. Respect and protect my privacy.
Do not make unnecessary, superfluous calls/e-mails etc.. my time is limited.
If you have been given an assignment or task for the next session, then carry it out as instructed. If you are unable to do so, inform me as early as possible. Ghosting/non-responsive submissives usually aren't given a second change or asked to return to the dungeon.

Personal Slavery

For patronage inquiries, please fill out my application and specify your interest. This is a fully submersive experience that requires a 4 month minimum arrangement.
I do not offer non-paid personal relationshps.

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